Monday, June 13, 2011
Hello folks, its been a while. I will like to address an issue that the delicate Male Ego has made so obscure.
We live in a world that is virtually blind to a very enviable virtue in the female folk, this goes beyond their sexuality and sensuality, its way ahead of good looks and how pleasant they make the Masculine figure feel.
WHAT IS THIS VIRTUE?
Its completeness in itself, this is why they appear so complementing, they are the ones that make us perfect.
The wrong female picture has been painted long enough; the sex symbol, limited thinking ability and inferior/second-class human bullshit among other derogatory sentiments, has been the major tool that MAN as in male, has and is still using to stay atop of everything.
The female character has played a lot of role in the lives of overshadowing Masculine personality.
They have been our Mothers, Friends, Comfort, Hope, Encouragement, Inspiration and Love, for some of us, they have being the reason to live, always lending a shoulder to cry and lean on and yet we claim they are Frail, where is the frailness? isn't it in our cocky personality, to stay as Boss and we have become so scared and jumpy at any slight challenge by this awesome creation.
With that said, lets get to the strength found in these frail vessels.Its really astounding what lengths Females go, to make thinks work out for us...yes you as a male...too much out of their comfort zone, they invest too much time, energy, emotion on fixing us and our shits, even when the futures looks so bleak, they persevere, they endure and that is the virtue(s), the completeness in Feminine form for every Man.
DEDICATION: This articles is dedicated to the very important FEMALES in my life, especially "MyIDOL" and every female out there.
DEDICATION: This articles is dedicated to the very important FEMALES in my life, especially "MyIDOL" and every female out there.
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Our focus is on give up or giving up, which means; surrender, hand over somebody (betrayal), loose hope, stop using or doing something, stop trying, devoting oneself to something (obsession), reveal information (betrayal), DEATH!
Every human wants to be a part of something great; at least to the one who wants it, since greatness is defined by the individual.
The passion to achieve is inborn and with proper encouragement everybody can come up with something really great.
Giving up means to let go, loose hope, surrender which depicts despair, depression, weakness, defeat and a host of other markers found in an unhealthy mind.
The window to the mind, which is our senses, feeds the mind (actually the brain) with all sorts of information, the mind on the other hand process this data by running it through the belief system which is subconscious; the belief system works in a yes or no way based on prior knowledge and filters every info, the interesting thing is nothing is deleted, they are only arranged and stored in according to priority.
The belief system is the most important, it makes up ones personality and it includes your mentality, sentiments, bias, ideas, norms; well this list is endless.
Acceptance, past experience, dreams, peer-pressure, vogue and the host also affects the belief system.
Alright! Giving up relates a state of mind where the person is blind to his ability, the perception of the person about himself is the he is WEAK, once you lose the I can mentality you are immediately log into a world of uncertainty, impossibility and insanity, without proper care suicide is seen as an option, and from my opinion that’s the last phase of GIVING UP.
Guard you mind, belief the rights thing, if you lose all hope, belief you will survive
Success only abides with the ones who are worth it; you will surely be tested, meaning circumstances will arise.
1. Once you start thinking about success, circumstances starts turning against you
2. You are being hunted by the devil; If the devil is busy, get to work too
3. Fear is being cautious: Fear is blinding, there is no good in it fruits are always uncertainty, impossibilities and insanity, don’t be limited by fear,
NOTE: fear is not being Careful
4. You can get lucky: No, work out your success and you will be happy with nothing to fear, if you did it before you can do it better now.
There is always a battle for balance in our universe and no amount of effort can eradicate either good or bad, they are bound to co-exist, so stop trying…really? Yes, stop trying!
Nature has this planned already, there’s a God and a devil, while the former produces good the later reel off evil, the balance needs to be sustained.
One of the most amazing effects of this is often found in our relationships, the ones we love and trust most hurt us the most, our parents, lovers, partners, girlfriends, family etc. are the ones who disappoint us and fall short of our expectations. You don’t get betrayed by someone in whom you have zero iota of trust. This goes a long way in explaining the balance; if you‘ve got love, hurt is definitely lurking in the shadows waiting for an opportunity to strike.
In business, you either make a profit or a loss, you are either selling or buying, there is no good nor bad, you define which is what by the values and variables you create in your subconscious and what you want.
So really good or bad is contextual, for example; in business, a loss which is considered bad may become an eye opener for better ways to make great profits, thereby leading to good.
Some so called bad happenings are sometimes lessons to becoming better at something
NOTE: As humans our thirst for success and happiness is never satisfied, this explains why we are always obsessed with expectations and this also gives us the drive for great achievements. That said, I like to add it’s very anti-human to give up.
NOTE: Our lives are not really ordered by good or evil, instead they are, by our wants and deeds, our desires and things we repeatedly do are the deciding factor for what or who we are. So striving to be good is not a way to have a good life.
MY ACHIEVEMENT FORMULA: Ignore the devil and his deeds (evil), strive for yours (desire).
DISCLAIMER: Am not saying THERE IS NO EVIL, instead am saying let go of you bias, beliefs, sentiments, religion and explore…stop limiting yourself to; this is good and that is evil.
Nature has this planned already, there’s a God and a devil, while the former produces good the later reel off evil, the balance needs to be sustained.
One of the most amazing effects of this is often found in our relationships, the ones we love and trust most hurt us the most, our parents, lovers, partners, girlfriends, family etc. are the ones who disappoint us and fall short of our expectations. You don’t get betrayed by someone in whom you have zero iota of trust. This goes a long way in explaining the balance; if you‘ve got love, hurt is definitely lurking in the shadows waiting for an opportunity to strike.
In business, you either make a profit or a loss, you are either selling or buying, there is no good nor bad, you define which is what by the values and variables you create in your subconscious and what you want.
So really good or bad is contextual, for example; in business, a loss which is considered bad may become an eye opener for better ways to make great profits, thereby leading to good.
Some so called bad happenings are sometimes lessons to becoming better at something
NOTE: As humans our thirst for success and happiness is never satisfied, this explains why we are always obsessed with expectations and this also gives us the drive for great achievements. That said, I like to add it’s very anti-human to give up.
NOTE: Our lives are not really ordered by good or evil, instead they are, by our wants and deeds, our desires and things we repeatedly do are the deciding factor for what or who we are. So striving to be good is not a way to have a good life.
MY ACHIEVEMENT FORMULA: Ignore the devil and his deeds (evil), strive for yours (desire).
DISCLAIMER: Am not saying THERE IS NO EVIL, instead am saying let go of you bias, beliefs, sentiments, religion and explore…stop limiting yourself to; this is good and that is evil.
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
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Thursday, April 7, 2011
Ever felt naked 'cause of something you have done, you wish you can rewind time, but like always, its T.O.O L.A.T.E, time ain't gonna rewind, so you just have to live with this memories all your life. The bad thing is that, the more you keep thinking about this stuffs, you are actually building a network of evil thoughts, and you start to remember how it all started and a host of bad things starts to pile in your door front, your friends can't help you, nope not in the least, they are just humans and they 've got stuffs to keep too, some are going to be really pissed at you, some disappointed, while others overwhelmed- trust me you need none of that. You just gonna have to deal with it your self . Negative thoughts have a way of attracting bad happenings. learn to survive circumstances, it ain't easy for all, trust me!
N.B: Your real friends will always know when you are in trouble, even when they are not close, they can feel you and they will probably call you.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Today i screwed up real big. i was in a friends office, really i just met him about two weeks ago.But he's a cool guy and i like him.He keeps a office-home meaning he sleeps in his office. He has been working all through the night like always, so he decides to take a little nap. i noticed an opened folder on his laptop that held a particular collection of animated movie. i copied some of the movies due to storage capacity shortage, or i would have copied the everything. He woke up a few minutes later picked up his laptop and continued working. i packed up to leave and he called me and said "You were accessing my computer earlier on without my permission, so for that; hence forth you cannot come into this office" i felt really embarrassed but then the weight of what i did begin to sink in.
First, that was an office, you don't go to peoples office and start to look through files on their computers, talk more of copying their files,
really i was not being smart, i was just too relaxed that i forgot this was an office and i let familiarity bridge business. i feel awful.
really i was not being smart, i was just too relaxed that i forgot this was an office and i let familiarity bridge business. i feel awful.
Second, Peoples computer houses their personal files, ideas, project and a lot of things that are not meant for a third party. like i said i was not thinking straight.but i guess have learnt the hard way. i have been thrown out of the office and i can't be as free as i use to be around him anymore. There is also this thing i learnt, do not allow anyone or anything that jeopardize you success. Privacy is priority. and refusing what you hate ain't pride.
see you guys when i have something to offer keep reading!
see you guys when i have something to offer keep reading!
Friday, February 18, 2011
Friday, February 11, 2011
HELLO EVERYONE,
I woke up this morning feel very sad and depressed, i can't figure out why and how things turn out this bad.
I love someone so much, yet i keep hurting her, have tried all the tricks in my bag and now am out, i know am loosing
her. Really i thought i was not the 'loving' type for a long time, now i guess am W.R.O.N.G, maybe i should have prepared myself for the one i will eventually love, maybe am just not ready for L.O.V.E. A couple of maybe's keep running through my head.My heart is pounding, my head is spinning, what am i gonna do, E.S.C.A.P.E?! its always said that a Man should stand and defeat his problem and not runaway from it, so am i supposed to F.I.G.H.T this one.
Am so passionate about F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P yet its so difficult to keep Friends, i know am loving, caring, very forgiving and about 98.8% honest, i can also be very loyal. But here's the but, am a very complicated personality and i seldom meet someone who understands me enough. A friend sometimes told me he does not understand me and that it looks like he's following a shadow. Another said i have a double personality; one GOOD and the other the FLIP side of good . i appreciate these guys being real with me, but has that changed me---No, not at all!
SELF; this hurt most. i sit down and think and most times i can't seem to be able to grab an handle on my life, self achievement is ZERO and that sucks, most people have met, thinks am a great guy and some idiots even resent me for that, but the truth is that i have not met this Great Cyril!, i may be a great dreamer, who has probably acquired a couple of
skills but that doesn't count, all i want is results, RESULTS!RESULTS!! and RESULTS!!!.I help a couple of guys when it comes to problem-solving, but i don't get help with mine, and don't f*cking remind me, i need GOD. of course i know i need God and people too, that's why God created them, Good friends Stick! in fact they are stucked!
This article is dedicated to the few people i can still call my friends. Guys i need help!
I woke up this morning feel very sad and depressed, i can't figure out why and how things turn out this bad.
I love someone so much, yet i keep hurting her, have tried all the tricks in my bag and now am out, i know am loosing
her. Really i thought i was not the 'loving' type for a long time, now i guess am W.R.O.N.G, maybe i should have prepared myself for the one i will eventually love, maybe am just not ready for L.O.V.E. A couple of maybe's keep running through my head.My heart is pounding, my head is spinning, what am i gonna do, E.S.C.A.P.E?! its always said that a Man should stand and defeat his problem and not runaway from it, so am i supposed to F.I.G.H.T this one.
Am so passionate about F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P yet its so difficult to keep Friends, i know am loving, caring, very forgiving and about 98.8% honest, i can also be very loyal. But here's the but, am a very complicated personality and i seldom meet someone who understands me enough. A friend sometimes told me he does not understand me and that it looks like he's following a shadow. Another said i have a double personality; one GOOD and the other the FLIP side of good . i appreciate these guys being real with me, but has that changed me---No, not at all!
SELF; this hurt most. i sit down and think and most times i can't seem to be able to grab an handle on my life, self achievement is ZERO and that sucks, most people have met, thinks am a great guy and some idiots even resent me for that, but the truth is that i have not met this Great Cyril!, i may be a great dreamer, who has probably acquired a couple of
skills but that doesn't count, all i want is results, RESULTS!RESULTS!! and RESULTS!!!.I help a couple of guys when it comes to problem-solving, but i don't get help with mine, and don't f*cking remind me, i need GOD. of course i know i need God and people too, that's why God created them, Good friends Stick! in fact they are stucked!
This article is dedicated to the few people i can still call my friends. Guys i need help!
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Hello viewers, i promised i was going to post this and here it is. I hope you would like it.
Friendship is desired by everybody (no matter the age,color or creed), just like love, its a can't live-without thing.No matter how terrible our thought pattern, there is always someone out there who appreciates that personality.Sometimes, such a person thinks like us, and sometimes not.
Primarily what everyone wants from Friendship is H.A.P.P.I.N.E.S.S and just like any other relationship, L.O.V.E is key.
It has been observed that things that triggers Friendship are not always enough to continue, given time the object of attraction begins to fade and grow stale. So what keeps it going? TRUST and VALUE! its a survival tip for any relationship.
Friendship is desired by everybody (no matter the age,color or creed), just like love, its a can't live-without thing.No matter how terrible our thought pattern, there is always someone out there who appreciates that personality.Sometimes, such a person thinks like us, and sometimes not.
Primarily what everyone wants from Friendship is H.A.P.P.I.N.E.S.S and just like any other relationship, L.O.V.E is key.
It has been observed that things that triggers Friendship are not always enough to continue, given time the object of attraction begins to fade and grow stale. So what keeps it going? TRUST and VALUE! its a survival tip for any relationship.
What is Friendship supposed look like?
1. Friendship should involve a lot of sharing; but not only good things sorrow and grieve should also be shared, its often said that a problem shared is half-solved, well i don't agree totally, but it does make the heart lighter, and a good state of mind is something worth dying for sometimes. we all need to be happy and we need to surround ourselves with
people who will make us happy.
2. We definately need friends that will be truthful to us, people who will tell us to our face that we suck and have messed up, when we have done so, this does not always make us happy, but believe me it helps. truth is always true irrespective of the vessel conveying it. Our friend should not only pamper us, they are supposed to correct us.
3. Growth, increase and progress all add up to the same thing, we all want it, and we need to know that all this rest on the shoulder of our friends too, they are the ones to encourage us when we are down and in dirt, they are our rudder, steering wheel, compass foot; in that they motivate, inspire and encourage us to achieve, sometimes they can
sense danger miles away, so they warn or force us to the right path.
My thought: If you want to have good friends, be good to the ones you have already and be genuine, there someone out there that loves you for who you are.
1. Friendship should involve a lot of sharing; but not only good things sorrow and grieve should also be shared, its often said that a problem shared is half-solved, well i don't agree totally, but it does make the heart lighter, and a good state of mind is something worth dying for sometimes. we all need to be happy and we need to surround ourselves with
people who will make us happy.
2. We definately need friends that will be truthful to us, people who will tell us to our face that we suck and have messed up, when we have done so, this does not always make us happy, but believe me it helps. truth is always true irrespective of the vessel conveying it. Our friend should not only pamper us, they are supposed to correct us.
3. Growth, increase and progress all add up to the same thing, we all want it, and we need to know that all this rest on the shoulder of our friends too, they are the ones to encourage us when we are down and in dirt, they are our rudder, steering wheel, compass foot; in that they motivate, inspire and encourage us to achieve, sometimes they can
sense danger miles away, so they warn or force us to the right path.
My thought: If you want to have good friends, be good to the ones you have already and be genuine, there someone out there that loves you for who you are.
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Friends?!, its always nice to have them around, sometimes that's the closest thing to family we can get. its often said that our parents and siblings choose us, for friends it always the other way round- we choose them. For me friendship go a lot beyond hanging out and chatting, friendship is support and having each others back, looking out for each other, being a compass foot.
Friends can also be trouble sometimes, cause they are bound to step too close, talk too much, too plain...lots of 'toos'. A good relationship is always characterized by lots of settled conflicts.
One last thing friendship is very expensive; there thousand of compromise to make, policies and principle to waive, time to invest, issues to address- in short S.A.C.R.F.I.C.E.S
hey guys i will be waiting for your contribution
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